Nov 18 2008
How Parents Can Discipline Children and Promote Learning Without Stress & Punishment or Rewards
5 Things GREAT Parents Know, Understand, & Do to Motivate Children to Learn Without Using Punishments or Rewards.
Tag Archive 'resentment'
Sep 09 2008
The Ultimate Relationship Model!
How to create the magical relationship you’ve always wanted!
When she’s happy everyone’s happy!
It is my experience that a successful relationship model revolves around fulfilling a woman’s needs and making her happy. Yet I estimate that as many as 90% of men do not take advantage of this principle. I find that most men do not realize that fulfilling her needs ultimately will lead to fulfilling their own. Their conditioning, the stresses of work and life lead men to selfishly focus on their own needs first, which leaves them less fulfilled! Yes, it’s true! The paradox here is that the more they selfishly focus on their own needs the less they will attract in their own lives. So, guys be generous when it comes to focusing on fulfilling your partner’s needs.
Jul 23 2008
Relationship Coach Says Not to Compete For Your Partners Attention
A relationship coach tells what you should (and should not) do if you are not #1 or even #2 in your partner’s life.
Do you sometimes feel that you are really low on your partner’s priority list? Do you feel put aside in favor of the television, computer, friends, family, your partner’s job, or even sleep? When you were dating, you felt so special and now you are not sure if you are special anymore, just a convenience, or not even that.
Relationship coaches advise men and women to avoid these three mistaken approaches that people take to regain their partner’s attention:
May 05 2008
Living With an Alcoholic (part 2)
The first article discussed some things to avoid. This article looks at some actions that may
be of help in encouraging the drinker to change. However the bottom line is that, as the
partner of the drinker, you need to look after your own life.
In the previous article we talked
about things but you should not do. In
this article we’ll talk about things that you could do to make it more certain
that your partner will do something about their drinking. As suggested in the previous article as the
partner of the drinker you should not fall into the trap of co-dependency, that
is living the life reacting to the behavior of the drinker. It is difficult to not fall into that
pattern, however that only reinforces the drinker’s behavior and increases the
anger and resentment felt by the partner.