Dec
07
2008
Kid
Something horrible has happened between you and the person you fell in love with and got married to. You’ve decided to divorce. Your children did not have the same experience with your ex and should not be subjected to your evil feelings about him or her.
Did you suffer when you had to listen to critical words about your former spouse from your friends or from your parents? Were you just a bit bruised listen to their criticisms? Did you want to run away from those hurt-filled words?
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Your Child Can’t Bear to Hear Their Other Parent Criticized
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Tags: cho, committed relationship, critical words, feelings, hatred, love, loving thoughts, parents, prostitute, reputation, sake, shortcomings, slut
Dec
03
2008
Kid
On the home page of my website I have a quote saying “Over 60% of re-marriages end in re-divorce.” I frequently get asked, “Why is the divorce rate higher?” Let’s talk about why…
On the home page of my website I have a quote saying “Over 60% of re-marriages end in re-divorce.” I frequently get asked, “Why is the divorce rate higher?” People state confusion over this because they believe that since they’ve been divorced once before, they’ll know the danger signs to look for and they are more determined to have what they call a “successful” marriage.
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Remarriage - Why Are They a Greater Risk?
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Tags: committed relationship, confusion, conscious decision, danger signs, demise, divorce experience, divorce rate, losses, marriage, realities, rush, sad fact, stable foundation, successful marriage, taking time
Sep
13
2008
Kid
Couples often get into power struggles because they fail to
properly consult with each other when faced with important decisions. The need
to feel in control often creates major hurdles for intimacy and can prevent you
from building a harmonious relationship. This article describes ways to help
you and your partner begin working as a team and overcome power struggles.
In the past
you were single?
?and you could make decisions without having to check in
with anyone.
Your favorite color was red and you liked small, fast cars
(as in Cherry Red Sports Car, beloved even though you wrenched your back
getting in and out);
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Marriage problems: Are power struggles destroying your relationship?
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Tags: bedroom apartment, committed relationship, couples, fast cars, favorite color, feelings, gift certificate, groceries, hanks, harmonious relationship, head over heels, hurdles, important decisions, intimacy, margaritas, red sports, sports car, tattoo, working as a team
Jul
14
2008
Kid
Do you know why you get most upset and reactive inside of your personal relationships?
How many times have you heard people say something like, “I never get this upset or act this way except with my significant other.? “I never behave or feel this way with my friends or anyone else.? Why is that? Why do we get so triggered and the worst traits of our personality come out to play when we are in a committed relationship? Great question and I have a theory about that. What a surprise.
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Tags: behavior traits, committed relationship, emotional baggage, emotional energy, emotional pains, family members, fears, friends and family, little holes, negative energy, personal relationships, personality, professional relationships, reactivity, relationship killer, relationships with others, standoffish, surprise, three rings, toxic waste