Mar 13 2008
Three Proven Ways To Get The Girl Of Your Dreams - How To Be Attractive To Women
You know I could sit here and tell you do this that and the other and before you know it you will be with Miss Wonderful. There are lots of articles out there telling you to be more confident, be positive and funny and women will really be attracted to you.
While we all know that this makes sense what they fail to point out is this, what is contributing to your lack of confidence and how can you honestly be more funny?
Let’s start out with being more funny. Have you ever had a friend that does not try to be funny but just is? He is not putting on a show but he for some reason or another tends to be funny.
Then there is the other poor chap who tries to be funny and nothing falls into place. I feel if you are trying to be funny it implies that you are not really being funny. The very fact that you have to try means you are not funny. In actual fact if I kept going on about this it might even get funny.
The point is this, the best fun comes out of spontaneity and I am afraid you cannot prepare for that. Understand your own short comings as we all have them and make light of it.
A person who does not take themselves too seriously is always more fun to be around because you feel more relaxed in their company. No one is putting on a show and being false and then you can have a real connection. We all like real and that goes for men and women.
Let me tell you a little story. I once went up to a girl and said “I suck when it comes to chatting up women” She almost spat her drink back in her glass. I did not think it was funny but she seemed to think it was. I was being honest and I suppose my dead pan expression just seemed to add to the moment. Honesty can be very funny and by way we engaged in a vigorous conversation on the matter.
Don’t get me wrong I could of ran into somebody who said “Ya Whatever” with her hands on her hips which I would have found funny but so what I am not perfect and who wants to hang out with someone who has an attitude and is full of themselves.
The most attractive qualities I find in a woman are humility and independence. She lives her life, takes responsibility yet she is a real human being not some robot who has read all the self help books on the planet about how we are all wonderful. We are human and we all make mistakes and often times we are as dumb as a fence post.
This is where you will be an attractive catch for women. Get on with your life, take responsibility, be honest which if you truthfully are can be very funny. Taking responsibility basically means having your house in order.
Quit chasing women and being needy. Just engage in conversation, make more friends and then it is only a matter of natural progression where you will end up with your true soul mate.
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